Is social computing biting the heels of the enterprise?

I've been thinking about what it means to work for an enterprise and how this situation will change for people over the next decade or so. On first blush, it might seem obvious -- you (a worker) enter into a contract with a corporation where you apply your knowledge, skills and creative aptitude to create, produce, solve, communicate, etc... "stuff" for a minimum of 40 hours per week in exchange for pay, healthcare, fringe benefits, and some sense of security about the future. Let's call the application of knowledge, skills, etc..., as described above, "work" (I know for some lucky people, it doubles as play). And let's assume that as you work, you engage with particular people within the enterprise (maybe each of these people represent a larger set of people and work) and, in some cases, outside the boundaries of the enterprise -- customers, partners, suppliers, analysts, subject matter experts.
Cubicles

Hey, that's a great case for a social computing platform, right?
Let's let everyone mingle in an emergent digital (i.e., geography-agnostic) space that can capture connections, ideas, notes for later, stray thoughts. I was a big fan of the social computing tools IBM was starting to release while I was there, as they helped me do my work. It was fun to be part of a community of early adopters. These tools, circa early 2007, included WikiCentral Dogear, and W4. Recently, I've been walked through some of the newer tools such as Cattail, Fringe, and Beehive. In my new role, I consult with other enterprises about what sorts of experiences they should provide to their customers, partners and employees via digital platforms.

For context, the generic names of these tool sets include: (the well-worn) blog, wiki (e.g., Wikipedia, of course), social network (e.g., Linked In), social bookmarking (e.g., del.icio.us), micro-blogging (e.g., Twitter), location-based services (e.g., Dodgeball, Brightkite) and what I think of as community-curated content sites such as Digg.com, Last.fm, and even Flickr, a photo sharing site. Hey, some of these ideas aren't that new -- but the way they're executed and delivered is fresh in one way or another (that Web 2.0 je ne sais qua).

More fun at work
Everyone loves this stuff! It's fun to make work more social, and more digital. Why is digital fun? More exposure to images and sounds -- in other words, more media. The tools' interfaces are getting more interesting -- less wonky than traditional software packages and less hierarchical than traditional web sites. Many of them have a sense of humor. These tools make it possible for people to just *be* online, socially. Last decade, someone spending hours a day online was a loner. Now you can spend hours online being social – cultivating relationships that are essential for your work and play. And for work-related purposes, you can be online with or without a task plan or a particular intention. You can hang out, and information will find you -- information you knew you needed, and also information you didn't know you needed. Your social digital self has become a magnet, and all you have to do is show up. This is really the key.

Picture this. You have a platform, whether provided by your enterprise or part of the public digital fabric, and you're hanging out there with your friends, colleagues, and other associates -- people from your industry, your clients, your partners, etc. What do you talk about? Everyone's there, curious and listening! What is company confidential information? Do we care what our clients think about how we spend our time online? About who we know? Are we inadvertently introducing clients to partners when we prefer to keep the business to ourselves? As we think out loud, are other people profiting from our ideas?

A challenge to the enterprise identity
A company that feels it has a lot to lose (rightly or wrongly) might get a crook in their neck and reinforce their enterprise boundaries. “Smart companies” (or maybe just contemporary companies) are letting it all unfold to form a new landscape, terrain, playing field -- choose your geographic metaphor. Let the cards fall where they may. We don’t know what’s possible yet, so we don’t have a plan to encourage or discourage it.

I think a better way to come at this is to separate the questions that stem from merely a fear of the unknown from the questions that have real implications for business. Which ones are those? I think this is ultimately about a shift in the definition of work and employment. Perhaps, going forward, working for an enterprise means that you're playing on a team. Which team? That's the million dollar question. It could be the senior executives and the board of directors. It could be everyone else who's also loyal to and playing for this team at any given moment -- a community. It could even be the brand, rather than a group of individuals, per se.
Yankees

The implications for long-term loyalty and affiliation differ greatly among these options. My gut says that the kind of team that wins the greatest loyalty is the one inspired by the brand, much as in professional sports. You can be a Yankee fan for decades, even as the players and management change, and even though you're not even *on* the team, yourself! I always found this fascinating. Is it a blind love? On the other hand, if you're playing to line someone else's pockets (or if that's simply how you feel about your contribution), then there's a very short-lived need for loyalty -- defined exactly by the terms of your employment. Let's say, for good measure, that community is somewhere in between; that there are a lot of variables in the make up of a community; and that community, while varied and complex, is probably the locus of the answers to my pondering questions.

Where does this leave us, or me, with this line of thinking. I wanted to pin this back to a practical set of questions about what it means to work for an enterprise. If you follow my logic, then what kind of contract should a person have with an enterprise -- or with several enterprises, concurrently or over time? Where will our current employer/employee relationship model begin (or continue) to disintegrate, and how will social digital platforms accelerate the process? For example, as a former and fairly recent IBMer, I would love to be able to peruse the IBM org chart and other connections to locate expertise from my community. (Yes, I said “my” community.)

Looking at this question from a different angle: What could an enterprise of the future be -- what would its constitution be? Employees, assets, debts… or something else? If you agree with the premise that the boundaries are shifting, then doesn’t it follow that the full shape and make-up of the enterprise will need to be rethought?

I’d love to hear your thoughts about the role social computing plays in our relationships with enterprises.

With gratitude,
Ruth Kaufman
User experience person @Avenue A | Razorfish; formerly creative problem solver @IBM/ibm.com

RECOGNIZING POTENTIAL IN GREAT IDEAS

0001411353350_mdblueredballsRecently, I was talking to long-time colleague, Dr. Alex Pattakos, founder of the Center for Meaning and author of Prisoners of Our Thoughts. We had a great chat about my experience of the Greater IBM Connection and the potential so many us see in this business and social networking IDEA. He immediately saw the possibilities for meaningful innovation by connecting all that IBM talent across the world.

Then he followed it up by saying, "You know, I have a connection to IBM, too!" He went on to tell me his story about how one of his creative ideas was showcased by IBM in a special program called INNOVATION IN ACADEMIC COMPUTING over 20 years ago. In the mini-podcast below, Alex shares his story of IBM recognizing the potential in his forwarding-thinking idea called the "Electronic Visiting Professor" that he brought to the University of Maine. Using IBM PCs, he was able to bring in faculty members from around the world into the rural campus in Orono, Maine, expanding the learning experience through technology. Alex also shares his perspective about the Greater IBM idea after hearing about it and visiting our blog and website.

My Talk with DR. ALEX PATTAKOS

download MP3

IBM's eye for recognizing the potential in a great idea isn't new. This is a quality I've learned to more fully appreciate as I've seen and experienced its reach over the years --- and it continues here at Greater IBM and in other initiatives. One of my personal favorites is the Global Innovation Outlook, where IBM is joining together with leaders from business, academia, and politics from around the world to create new opportunities for business and society.

Do you have a story to share from your own experience past or present?

debbe

Dkatdesk2Debbe Kennedy
Contributing Author
Greater IBM Connection
Founder, President & CEO
Global Dialogue Center and
Leadership Solutions Companies
www.globaldialoguecenter.com
author, Putting Our Differences to Work (Berrett-Koehler June 2008)
IBMer 1970 - 1991 L.A.; Anchorage; Seattle; San Francisco

Imagination in the Enterprise

Once, not too long ago in the Enterprise people found themselves working ever so diligently and thought everything was just honky dory thank you very much. Yet they were completely oblivious to the terrible neglect their creative souls were facing. They had forgotten how to imagine, they had stopped practicing the power of insight and ideas were fast becoming stale. The ability to create without inhibition had been lost. Day and night, they toiled over their business problems, trying to figure things out by themselves.

And then… information was given a name. Your name. Your face. Your likes and dislikes. People started using social media to share opinion and thoughts online. Previously suppressed ideas were openly expressed and socialized.  People began to find their unique voice once more. Authentic expression was embraced. The global drumbeat of new content creation was heard throughout the Enterprise as social networks were formed.

Stories of life, hope and tragedy were shared. People around the world were compelled to take action and quickly formed online communities. Creative souls were stirred to think about the possibilities. They began to imagine great things as ideas were shared from the inside out; as seemingly abstract concepts were externalized they were developed into innovative solutions, alongside others who saw their potential.

The people had found a way to connect and create, but most of all they now had confidence to express themselves and use their unique voice.

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Image courtesy of Alice Bartlett

Social Computing has opened up new ways for people to solve problems, work with ideas and imagine great things. Have you given your team the opportunity to express themselves?

Jasmin Tragas aka Wonderwebby is a Managing Consultant at IBM working in the area of Knowledge, Collaboration and Learning Services, HCM, Australia.

How are Greater IBM’ers Connecting?

I would like to see more GIBM blog posts, articles, and overall communications about how Greater IBM’ers are connecting and collaborating with each other in unusual ways to make a difference.  That's what this is all about, right?


OK, here's one for you...


After 11 years at IBM (’95-’06), I spent 18 months producing my very first (but hopefully not my last) feature length documentary film. Yes, IBM marketing chick turns filmmaker.  Some people take up knitting. Me? I make a movie, go figure. J I have to say, it was probably one of the most complex projects I’ve ever tackled and yet the most creative, rewarding and fun.


Our film, “Single” (www.singlefilm.com) is about the growth of the unmarried population and the complexities of finding and maintaining a lasting relationship in today’s crazy world. We even explore how technology has helped and hurt us in this regard. My film partner, Richard Atkinson, and I completed it earlier this year and I’m pleased to say that feedback from initial audiences has been *overwhelmingly* positive. We are still in the early stages of public awareness and promotion, but the film seems to strike a strong personal chord with all viewers - regardless of age, gender, and relationship status.


And I have to thank a number of IBM’ers – past and present, and on both sides of the Atlantic – for playing a role (figuratively and literally!) in my wonderful filmmaking adventure.

  • One current IBM VP (and former manager) introduced me to an author who wound up being one of the star experts of the film.
  • One current IBM’er composed and recorded some instrumental music to help set the mood in a few key scenes. Funny thing, I worked with him for a couple of years and didn't even know he played a musical instrument till now!
  • One current IBM’er (and former manager) saw an early preview of the film and blogged about it at her online journal – and her posting generated over 250 comments and led to a huge spike of hits to our web site.
  • And possibly the coolest thing: A few IBM’ers (past and present) can now add “movie star” to their professional resumes.  How many IBM’ers can say that?!  J Watch the trailer below and you might spot some familiar faces (including mine)!

Without the contributions of these GIBM'ers, I can honestly say that “Single” would be a very different film.

So for me, this is what the Greater IBM Connection is all about. And we need to enable more of it.  More ways to make and maintain connections with each other and collaborate.  Do -- or create -- "business unusual."  Most importantly, continue to make a difference in some way...together. My example shows that the relationships we build during our time as IBM’ers can transcend the limits of our formal employment ties. And I've got a great movie to prove it! J


Got a similar story to tell? Let’s hear it!


Jane Scandurra

IBM'er '95-'06

Single - a documentary film

www.singlefilm.com

WHEN WOMEN GATHER

Womengatheringsm2_2We did it! Last Friday at 9:30 a.m. Eastern Time, Greater IBM women came together from around the world for our first Women's Leadership Gathering. It was an online dialogue event hosted by my company's Global Dialogue Center CONFERENCE CENTER. The theme for our first conversation was Leadership Lessons: Missteps, Miracles, and Milestones. Shara Sokol, Greater IBMer (1999-2004) from New York and president of s2 Creative Communications, joined me as co-host. We were also very blessed to have Nancy Margulies, who worked with us in the initial pilot (see "related article" below) and is well-know as "the godmother of graphic recording". She did live illustration to bring our dialogue to life. It wasn't just the two-hour conversation experience we shared together, there was a magic in the preparation in the days leading up to the event that counted too.

As women from around the world, including Canada, France, Germany, Hungary, Spain, and from every region of the United States, made their way to the gathering, some were stepping up to put their fingerprints on our dialogue in meaningful ways long before the actual day. It started with three Greater IBM trailblazing women, who volunteered to serve as "conversation starters." Each of them found a unique way to share their thought-provoking messages.

Linda Griffin from Virginia started the dialogue by telling us, "I spent 30 wonderful years in my career with IBM. I loved my job!" She followed with her story of how she turned her experience into a leadership coaching career in 2006, as founder of ClearWind LLC. Her warm and generous sharing provided  "pearls of wisdom" for all of us to take home.

Orsoyla Selley, Greater IBMer from Hungary, wasn't able to be with us for the event. However, she gave me the honor of carrying a message from her to the meeting. This demonstrated how even when we can come to an event, we can still make a contribution by sharing ourselves.

Jane Scandurra, Greater IBMer from New York, and contributing author to the Greater IBM BLOG, wrote to say she wouldn't be able to attend as she was heading out on vacation --- but this didn't stop her from "being there" with us. You see, Jane Scandurra is owner of Go Pictures and Films, LLC with a new documentary film just launched, called "SINGLE". A few days before our Women's Leadership Gathering, a video arrived in my email from Jane. As I watched her clever message --- I was so touched at her efforts to support our first gathering. In the great tradition of IBMers, she "leaped over a few buildings" to deliver her brand of excellence as she talked with us via video at the event.

WHAT DID OTHER WOMEN HAVE TO SAY ?
Here is a small sampling of the words Greater IBM women chose to share about the experience before leaving the event...

-- "So refreshing to meet in a place where everyone had your best interest in mind."
-- "Gave me lots of food for thought when I really needed it!"
-- "Appreciate the experience so much. It was wonderful!"
-- "Invaluable. Please continue. Taking home some great pieces of wisdom."
-- "
A suprise due to the original and fun format!!
I will promote this forum!!!
-- "Appreciate IBM offering us an opportunity to network with
IBM and IBM alumni women; we share a common link."

In one of my cherished books, I re-read this passage the week before our first Greater IBM Women's Leadership Gathering: "...miracles always will happen if you believe them to be possible." This was truly a small miracle for which I am so grateful to have been apart.

We recorded the event to share with other Greater IBM women. It will be available shortly for replay with visuals, video and audio too! Watch for an announcement on Greater IBM on Xing; I will post on our forum. Most of all, there will be more! This was just a first in a series. Our next event Greater IBM Women's Leadership Gathering will be announced shortly. It will have wonderful theme that emerged from ideas during our dialogue at the first event. You won't want to miss it!

Have joined the Great IBM Connection?
...our a business and social network for current and former IBMers

Debbe

Dkatdesk2Debbe Kennedy
Contributing Author
Greater IBM Connection
Founder, President & CEO
Global Dialogue Center and
Leadership Solutions Companies
www.globaldialoguecenter.com
author, Putting Our Differences to Work (Berrett-Koehler June 2008)
IBMer 1970 - 1991 L.A.; Anchorage; Seattle; San Francisco

RELATED ARTICLE:
"Women's Jam --- just a beginning of online synergy"
Greater IBM Connections eMagazine
http://www.ibm.com/ibm/greateribm/connections/connections_article24.shtml

I AM ALSO A YOU?

BluefingerprintsmThe other day, I opened up an old book. I found it recently in used book store by-chance. I first was introduced to the book years ago at an IBM party in San Francisco. Its title stuck with me all these years. I AM ALSO A YOU. It is truly period piece --- a collection of thoughts with some far-out photographs, capturing the moment in time. It has a three word "Introduction" with a signed all-in-one self-portrait of John Lennon and Yoko Ono. It reads Rest in Peace.

Just seeing the book again had me questioning, "Am I also a YOU?" Perhaps, when it comes to the basics of being human, I am. I bet we have much in common --- but what I love so much in people is discovering over and over again how uniquely different we are --- and how much of who we are, comes with us when we arrive on this planet. For example, I watch who my daughter has grown to be with wonder (she is also a Greater IBMer). The family resemblance is definitely there, yet there are traits that have made her uniquely her own person from the very start. Perhaps, this is what Kahlil Gibran meant in his thoughts shared in I AM ALSO A YOU:

..."You may give them your love but not your thoughts;
For they have their own thoughts.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you."

One of the things I've enjoyed most about getting to know people in the Greater IBM Connection is discovering all the new dimensions of difference that make up this global community. The cultures. The experiences. The vast range of talent. We make quite an amazing collection! There is also something comfortable about knowing we are all connected across cultures, time and distance by working for IBM. It is there I remember that I AM ALSO A YOU. I sense others see this too. It shows up when new Greater IBMers tell us why they came and what it means to them to join.

What makes you unique and different?
Have you joined us yet?

Debbe

Dkatdesk2Debbe Kennedy
Contributing Author
Greater IBM Connection
Founder, President & CEO
Global Dialogue Center and
Leadership Solutions Companies
www.globaldialoguecenter.com
IBMer 1970 - 1991 L.A.; Anchorage; Seattle; San Francisco

Discovering Meaning in YOUR WORK?

DkbluepuzzleThere is something special about discovering that your life’s work matters --- you love what you do --- there is real meaning in it. I had one of these moments this week. It arrived like a gift after weeks of long days and overload. I admit IBM trained me well for this kind of reality many years ago. As I recall, the learning came from a continuous practice of the “learn while doing” approach to “leaping over tall buildings” to reach some new level of service – performance – contribution – excellence. Although it was never talked about much, I’ve not met an IBMer that doesn’t instantly relate and know the exhilaration of having all the hard work pay off --- all the pieces falling perfectly into place --- that moment when the meaning of it all takes on a new significance.

Are you having flashbacks about your own experiences?

So how can we discover deeper MEANING in what we do every day?
Many years ago, one profound influence on my life that began to help me answer this question came from reading, Man’s Search for Meaning by the famed psychiatrist, philosopher, and holocaust survivor, Viktor Frankl. Later in a management development class at IBM, Dr. Frankl’s messages were again highlighted by futurist Joel Barker’s recount in his now classic film, Power of Vision. I can still repeat the closing statement: “There is a peculiarity of man that he can only live by looking to the future, because that’s what gives meaning to life [and our work]."

Perhaps, this question today, at this time of transition and turbulence in business and society, needs to be re-examined more than ever before. Dr. Alex Pattakos, a student of Viktor Frankl and author of Prisoners of Our Thoughts: Viktor Frankl’s Principles for Discovering Meaning in Life and Work, asks new questions for a new time: "Why do some people seem to have an easier time dealing with complex and challenging situations than others? Why do some people seem more capable of dealing with change than others?" Dr. Pattakos offers seven core principles. Below I’ve listed them and provided a brief summary, paraphrased from his book, highlighting what they have come to mean to me:

1. Exercise the freedom to choose your attitude.
Choose your attitude; it’s a freedom we all have.
2. Realize your will to meaning.
Commit to meaningful goals that you can actualize and fulfill.
3. Detect the meaning of life's moments.
Look for the meaning at any given moment.
4. Don't work against yourself.
Avoid becoming so obsessed with outcome; it can work against you.
5. Look at yourself from distance.
Keep a sense of humor as you look back at yourself and your actions.
6. Shift your focus of attention.
Learn to focus your attention away from a problem; see beyond it.
7. Extend beyond yourself.
Look at the bigger picture; the higher purpose of what you are doing.

Does MEANING have a connection to the Greater IBM Community?
As we come together at the Greater IBM Connection, transcending time, distance, and differences across the world, we have the opportunity to find a new level of meaning in this global community we are creating. It is hard not to envision the far-reaching possibilities that social media offer to us, as others, like Andy Piper, have written about on this blog. Imagine the power of all the unique ways we discover meaning in our work and our lives coming together. Imagine what we can do together. Imagine what we can learn from one another. Nice! So I ask you:

Whether you are a current or former IBMer...

What meaning have you discovered in your "work" however you define it?


What qualities in your life's "work" mean the most?

I look foward to hearing your perspective and striking up a conversation!

Debbe

Dkatdesk2Debbe Kennedy
Contributing Author
Greater IBM Connection
Founder, President & CEO
Global Dialogue Center and
Leadership Solutions Companies
www.globaldialoguecenter.com
IBMer 1970 - 1991 L.A.; Anchorage; Seattle; San Francisco

31 Days and Counting… How About You?

Resolutions_01012007 Today is February 1st  and I am very happy to say that, for the first time ever, I have been able to stick to my new year’s resolutions through the entire month of January. In fact, I pat myself on the back just now. Quite an accomplishment for me, as I normally don’t make it past the first week.


So, what’s different this year? How come I’ve been able to stick with it for a whopping 31 days so far?  I think it’s because I took a new approach. It’s so simple, something we all know already, that it’s almost silly to write about it. But I'll share it anyway because it's a good reminder.


It comes down to this: “99% is a b*tch, 100% is a breeze.”


I read that phrase over the holidays in Jack Canfield’s book “The Success Principles.”  Jack writes:


“Successful people adhere to the “no exceptions rule” when it comes to their daily disciplines. Once you make a 100% commitment to something, there are no exceptions. It’s a done deal. Non-negotiable. Case closed! Over and out. If I make a 100% commitment to monogamy, that’s it. I never have to think about it again. There are no exceptions no matter what the circumstances. It ends the discussion, closes that door, permits no other possibility. I don’t have to wrestle with that decision every day. It’s already been made. The die has been cast. All the bridges are burned. It makes life easier and simpler and it keeps me on focus. It frees up tons of energy that would otherwise be spent internally debating the topic over and over and over, because all the energy I expend on internal conflict is unavailable to use for creating other achievement.”


Duh!  What a concept.  So simple.  So true.  And 100% effective.


There is a huge difference between interest and commitment.  When you’re interested in doing something, you tend to do it only when it’s convenient. When you’re committed to something, you accept no excuses.  So, I call this year’s resolutions my “No Exceptions / No Excuses” list. And (miraculously), they’re sticking.


Most people also make resolutions that are too big, too overwhelming, or too unpleasant to tackle and that’s why they don’t stick. So this year, I made my resolutions more “bite size” in nature – because even small victories are better than no victories at all. Small steps towards positive change can hopefully become habitual.


Here are a few of mine, these just happen to be health-related. They're not exciting or even enjoyable, but I know they’ll deliver long term benefits for me.

  • I will drink at least 2 liters of water every day. (I highly recommend this one)
  • I will eat breakfast every day and it must include protein. (coffee only has been my daily ritual for a long time. ok, maybe a cookie too sometimes. yeah, I know...real healthy)
  • My kitchen officially “closes” every night at 7:30pm – that means no big meals or even snacking after that time (I stole that one from Oprah)

One week into the new year, I met a friend for cocktails after work. I told her about my new resolution approach. She was intrigued by my enthusiasm and resolve. So I challenged her to join me and make a daily commitment for herself - just one. On the spot, she came up with three!  I noticed the bartender eavesdropping on our conversation (don't they all?), so I challenged him too. And he was happy to commit as well (wait a minute.... a guy happy to make a commitment to a woman??  what?!  ahh, i digress -- that's another blog for another day). I toasted them both with a 16 oz glass of water to make sure I met my quota for the day and wished them luck.

So, here it is Feb 1. And guess what? Both my friend and the bartender have made it through the first month too! Of course, they could be lying to me, but I don’t think so. Because both of them said they had actually passed that challenge on to others in the following days of seeing me. Talk about making a “greater connection!”

So, how about all of you out there? Are you sticking to those New Year’s resolutions? 

It’s never too late to start (or start again), so I’ll challenge you all right now. Pick 1 or 2 “bite size” things that you will commit to do on a daily basis – 100%, with no excuses, no exceptions. Write them down and check them off before bed each night. And don't go to bed until you can check them all off as completed! I promise you, once you make that decision, you’ll be amazed at how easy and freeing it really is.  And I assure you the daily victories will be energizing.

btw, one of my other resolutions was to get more involved with the Greater IBM Connection effort. And I'm sticking to that as well.  Care to join me in that one?

Interesting coincidence, as a final note: Yesterday, as I was drafting this blog entry, a friend of mine who knew nothing about my resolution thing, emailed me a link to a video clip of her CEO’s tv appearance on NBC’s Today Show just a few hours earlier. She works for First 30 Days, a new and very cool web site designed to help people get through the first 30 days of various life transitions, as those initial days are the toughest. Guess what her CEO spoke about on national tv with Al Roker? Yep, that's right: How to stick to your New Year’s resolutions beyond the first month. Pretty cool - what synchronicity! I love when that happens. Watch her interview here for more help on keeping your resolutions.

Good luck!! J

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Jane Scandurra

IBM'er: 1995 - 2006

Searching for my civic life

Happy New Year, everyone! Maybe I'm lazy, but I seldom think about what I want to do, or maybe more precisely, how I want to live in the new year before it arrives. I have come up with no resolutions or list of things to do. No goals, and underdeveloped expectations. As the year turned over, I did acknowledge that I have an itch, however, to get more involved in civic life. In general, I invest my time in work, family, friends, and managing my household of 1 (plus 2 cats). These are all important, yet I face a fear that I will eventually have no voice in the world if I don't start paying attention to what's external to "mine" and participating in community life.

I live in New York City, on the Upper West Side. I like this neighborhood for many of the obvious reasons -- great restaurants, shopping, architecture, access to parks, access to transportation. I like New York because it's an international city -- a place where each and every person is free to be whoever they are without being an outcast. The anonymity of the big city is comforting. I may run for the bus, arms flailing like a fool, and no one will notice or laugh at me for it. I sit on the subway and notice the people across from me, as they notice me. We stare and contemplate each other as the train rumbles on. Sometimes we judge as we look through each other; other times we cast empathy with our gazes. We keep quiet, and ultimately, we let each other pass without requiring anything of one another. To me, this social spaciousness is peaceful. I also like being here because it's familiar. My grandparents have friends who live nearby, so when I came into the city as a kid growing up in New Jersey, this is one of the areas I'd see. I feel like I'm living in one of my childhood storybooks. How romantic.

So here I am -- a single, professional New Yorker with a good job, a nice apartment (but no mortgage), and no dependents. Aside from whatever books and computer equipment I purchase, and whatever I give to charities, I have no tax deductions. And as April 15 approaches, I will, no doubt, feel the blood letting. The tax code, of all things, makes me feel disconnected from our society – a signifier of my role in the machine: money comes in, money goes out. There is so little that I do in my life that is recognized as a need or a contribution. I know I'm fortunate, but I also ask -- am I an island? am I frictionless?

I refuse to accept that notion. The first thing I did to investigate a more explicit connection to my community is look up the community board web site for the Upper West Side (http://www.cb7.org/). I spent about an hour reading through the site. Maybe I can get involved with this? One look at the meeting agendas and I thought -- maybe not, or maybe not yet. Most of what I saw was about reviewing applications for building permits and the like -- something I know little about. For now it's enough to understand that this organization is there and generally how it works.

With the U.S. presidential primary season roaring, I looked next to find a group of supporters for my favorite candidate. I found them on Meetup.com, and I attended a meeting. I didn't immediately connect with the tone and style of the group, but tried to keep my eyes wide as I experienced, for the first time, what it's like to come together with strangers around an objective. It was interesting to encounter this heterogeneous group of people. I could credit Meetup with bringing us together, but I suspect that the Community Board also sees people of all shapes and sizes pass through. It made me ask myself, though, if this was what I was looking for when I set out to get more involved with the community. I couldn't help but predict that when the primaries are over -- or perhaps even after Super Tuesday, that this group would disband. A collection of people with a common objective does not, in and of itself, a community make. Yet the fact that we all are also dedicated supporters of a person, who happens to be running for president, because of the values and ideals he embodies gave me a sense that if I needed this group outside the cause of the election that I could turn to them. From the political will of our candidate, a community has emerged.

So what else makes for a community? Having worked at IBM, I know that members of a community do not always have to live in the same geographic region. Other dimensions can connect us. I looked to my social graphs on Facebook and Linked In. Sure, I know all these people -- some better than others -- but most of them don't know each other. Perhaps a community can emerge by virtue of knowing someone, but I’m not a superstar with that sort of gravity, so my social graph, regardless of size, is not a community.

I thought about my building. There are about 35 apartments on 7 floors. Are we a community? Right now, probably not. At least, we don't behave as one. We don't know each other by name or ask favors of each other, although we do all know the super. I would recognize a few faces if I passed them on the street, but as with the subway, we seem to -- not avoid each other, per se -- but to give each other space.

Next up – my company, Avenue A | Razorfish. In some ways we behave as a community, but in many ways, these behaviors and relationships are compartmentalized. I wanted to write: "...perhaps less and less as our professional and civic lives intertwine," but I don't believe this is true. In my observation, professional and social lives intertwine, but our civic lives almost seem taboo in context of the workplace. I wonder -- what are we protecting, and from whom? I fear we have our priorities reversed. This feeling is part of the itch.

Now I consider the Greater IBM Community. What is community-like about it? How can participating in it enrich my civic life and yours? We don't work together anymore, so perhaps it's safer to talk about situations in our world that may want for some of our consideration and civic-minded sweat. In her recent post entitled "A New Year: 20,000 Moments a DAY", Debbe Kennedy challenged us to think about what we could accomplish together in the business and social networking world in 2008. For me, these two facets of life are still part of what is "mine" -- my social network and my business network rather than our network. If we think of this network as a commons and don’t worry too much about the equity each of us has in it, individually, then what sorts of activities would we do? How would we behave?

Yours truly,
Ruth Kaufman
IBMer 2003-2007, ibm.com

A New Year: 20,000 Moments a DAY

Whiteclocksm Moving into a new year always seems to start with reflection on "where has all the time gone?" ...it also calls us to look to the future and ask how we will spend our time? What contributions will we make? How will we make our positive mark?

In a powerful little book, How Full is Your Bucket?: Positive Strategies for Work and Life,* we are reminded how important all the moments in our lives and work can be --- each one with the capability to have an enduring influence. Whether we look at ourselves from the view of being a leader, a co-worker, a friend, a parent, a spouse or partner, a citizen --- or a Greater IBMer, our words and actions can influence someone else's moments and experience, as well as our own:

"According to Nobel Prize-winning scientist Daniel Kahneman, we experience approximately 20,000 individual moments in a waking day. Each "moment" lasts a few seconds. If you consider any strong memory --- positive or negative --- you'll notice that the imagery in your mind is actually defined by your recollection of a precise point in time. Rarely does a neutral encounter stay in your mind --- memorable moments are almost always positive or negative. In some cases, a single encounter can change your life forever."

With the rapid growth of our Greater IBM Connection community around the world, I got thinking and imagining what we could do together with just a small fraction of the 7.3 MILLION waking moments we each have ahead of us this year. There is a rumbling ... a movement started here that has many fingerprints on it from every region as we've worked together to build the foundation for The Greater IBM Connection. This year? I think we will amaze ourselves ...and the world.

So, here is a question for YOU...

How do you think The Greater IBM Connection can and will put its mark on 2008 as a business and social network? What possibilities do you see?

Have you signed up?

On a personal note, being reminded about my own 20,000 moments each day will make me more conscious about how important each one is. How about YOU?

Best...
Debbe


Dk_for_skypesmlerDebbe Kennedy
Contributing Author
Greater IBM Connection
Founder, President & CEO

Global Dialogue Center and Leadership Solutions Companies
IBMer 1970 - 1991 L.A.; Anchorage; Seattle; San Francisco


* How Full is Your Bucket?:
Positive Strategies for Work and Life
by Tom Rath and Donald O. Clifton, Ph.D.

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